God is Good… No Matter What.

God is good, no matter what.

I had a lot of aspirations when I first got into ministry… to be a Senior Minister of a thriving church, to be a published author, and to share the Gospel of Christ throughout the nation.

Eight years into it and I am no longer a Senior Minister, I haven’t gotten past the point of thinking about writing a book, and very few people (although they are very important to me) actually know who I am.

God is good, no matter what.

I have had to keep on reminding myself of that truth ever since the day I got fired from my last church. Up until then I was at least a Senior Minister… I had something to grab a hold of, a light to lead me as I fought up that ladder of what I believed God had called me to be. I may not have had popularity or a book deal, but at least I had that.

It’s funny how one moment you think you’re accomplishing something in life and then, in an instant, all of that can be taken away from you. In a blink of an eye, a group of men looked at me, took my very reason for living in this world, and crushed it.

God is good, no matter what.

Trust me, I have played this over and over again in my head. I have looked for a nugget of truth in the accusations, have cried out for peace, I’ve even tried to build up a wall around my emotions so I didn’t have to think about it. I’ve done everything I know how to do to overcome all of this, and yet none of it has worked. I still hurt, I still have pain, I still feel lost.

God is good, no matter what.

This is true…I know because I’ve lived it. Despite everything I’m going through God has provided me with another full-time ministry position at a place where Heather and I can heal, He has surrounded us with supportive friends and family who have loved us through this storm, and He is encouraging us as we come to Him with our brokenness.

I’m writing this because I need to… deep down I need to understand what God wants me do with this and what He has planned for my life, but another part of me wants to help others who might be going through the same thing. If you are going through some real junk, let me say this to you:

  • Your pain doesn’t define you, God defines you.
  • God has more for you than the junk you are experiencing.
  • Never stop striving after God… like a rock-climber grasping for the next rock, never let go of God.
  • God loves you for you… yeah, He wants to change you into His image, but He still loves you even if you struggle with following Him.
  • Just because God calls you to something it doesn’t mean He’s going to place it in your hands… you may have to go through some growing pains to get there. Remember, it took David 10 years after God anointed Him as king before he sat in that throne.
  • The church is a mess and there are some horrible people in it who need Jesus just as bad as you, so relax and trust that God is changing them like He is changing you. The church might be a mess, but it’s a beautiful mess.
  • Even when God seems distant and acts as if He doesn’t care… He is right there with you, walking through the valley alongside you, helping you to get to the other side.

These are the things that I have been thinking about and leaning on over the last 8 months and it has gotten me through a lot…. my hope is that it can get you through it as well.

God is good, no matter what.



There are many different belief systems out in the world today about who God is and how involved He is in our lives. Some believe that god is a distant god, one who created the heavens and the earth and just sits back watching us like we’re Jersey Shore (I know, I know, old reference, but I don’t watch that junk anyway)…

That god is depressing to think of.

Others think God is slightly more active, only engaging His people when He wants to ruin their lives. Bruce Almighty compared this type of god to a bully holding a magnifying glass and we’re the ants scrambling for our lives. I compare this god to the parent who only communicate to their child through yelling or put-downs.

That god is abusive.

Stil, there are others who see God as heavily involved in their lives. They ask him for advice on what clothes they should wear that day or what decisions they should make for breakfast, or any other mundane decisions that their own brains could come up with on their own.

That god is oppressive.

I take a balanced approach… God is heavily active in my life, but He allows me to make my own decisions and to experience the consequences associated with those decisions. He is a parent with a loving heart that guides me in life and helps me take the right steps to a closer relationship…

And like any other parent would do with their child, He talks to me.

Now before you start taking my measurements for my straight jacket (At least the white would be fashionable this time of year) let me explain…

God talks to His people. I couldn’t tell you what He sounds like, but I can tell you He has spoken.

I know this crazy, but it’s only crazy for people who don’t follow Him. Jesus tells us that,

““My sheep hear My voice, and I know them, and they follow Me;” (John 10:27).

I asked my brother Chuck once what God sounded like and I will never forget what he told me…

“It’s like trying to hear a small whisper in a room full of noise.”


Think about it this way…

One day I was driving down the highway and one of my favorite songs came on the radio…

One thing you have to know about Paoli, IN is that there are two spots on the highway where K-love does not work, I have no idea why, it just doesn’t work…

Anyway, I was coming up to one of those spots and it started to get staticky, but because I had heard this song a thousand times before I could sing right on along without missing a beat.

That’s what it is like listening to the voice of God. At first it’s really hard to separate His voice from the static, but the more used to His voice you are, the easier it becomes.

So as you go out today, take the time to separate the noise from the voice of God and find out what He is saying to you…

I’ll tell you what He said to me next time.

Peace, Love, and Soul.

A Little Bit of Coffee and a Whole Lot of Jesus




I like coffee. A lot. 

It’s a culmination of a couple of things… it’s the smell, it’s the taste, it’s the process of making it… making sure the coffee to water ratio is just right so you get that perfect taste. 

SIDE NOTE: I am in no way referring to store-bought coffee. That is junk. I prefer freshly roasted, grounded-in-my-office, bold coffee (shout-out to my brother’s coffee, La Terza … do people even do shout-outs anymore?) 

Anyway, I like coffee, but I am finding it even more enjoyable when I combine it with things that I love to do. 

Last weekend I officiated a wedding for some friends of mine (congrats Rhonda and Wes) and they had live music. During that time I found myself sitting back, coffee in hand, enjoying two of the things in this world that get me to relax. 

But something strange happened. 

While I was sitting there enjoying my coffee and music, I felt closer to God. 

This feeling happened again on Sunday. That morning, the Youth Minister of our church preached and I was able to sit in the front pew, coffee in hand, worshipping with my fellow brothers and sisters in Christ. 

And I felt closer to God. 

I felt as if I needed to test this out, so this morning I got to the office early, turned on Spotify, sat down with (you guessed it) coffee in hand, and closed my eyes.

The feeling came again. I felt closer to God.  

All three of these moments brought me closer to God… so I got to thinking… does everybody have these? 

Do we all have something we enjoy that we can infuse God into the center of? 

I found it in coffee… but can someone find it in cooking, in dancing, in working out, in running, or (in my wife’s case) cleaning? 

I think so. 

It’s not because the act that we do is magical. It’s not as if the coffee is bringing me closer to God. 

It’s coffee that has become my gateway to relaxation and when I’m relaxed and focused on God… 

I feel closer to Him

I can talk with Him

and I can hear Him talk  with me. 

I’m going to start doing this a lot more… I hope you can join me. 

Peace, Love, and Soul.

Where is God?


Last week was bittersweet for me. 

On one hand I got to take a wonderfully relaxing vacation with my beautiful wife and 4 kids… but on the other hand our world had one of the worst weeks of tragedies we have ever experienced (at least in recent memory). 

With the debate of gun control still raging in the United States, people are still struggling with the recent tragedies of Sandyhook and Colorado. To have a bombing, a plant explosion, an avalanche, two earthquakes, and a lockdown of an entire city in one week on top of all that… seems a bit much, doesn’t it? 

And while this all impacts people different ways, one of the most popular questions being asked is this: 

“Where is God?”

Good question, and one that deserves an honest response.

(Side note: Don’t worry, this won’t be a religious rant about how godless this country is. Nor will this be a guilt inducing speech that points fingers at everyone but me… this is simply a statement on God’s presence in the midst of tragedy). 

He’s Here. God is Here. He is alive and He is well (cue Newsboys here)

That’s it. Simple, isn’t it? 

oh… you want more than that?

You only have to look at the struggling story of God and His people to know that He is here…

Look at the first tragedy ever recorded in the Bible, the fall of man. Before this tragic event we enjoyed God’s full presence. We talked with Him, we walked with Him, we explored the new world with Him, we did everything together. 

Once sin entered the picture, once we decided we wanted more than what God was offering, we were separated from God, not knowing if we’d ever see Him again. 

God had different plans. 

God wanted us back, He wanted us to experience Him in the same way we used to. So He crafted a plan…

Jeremiah 31:33–34 – ““I will put my law in their minds and write it on their hearts. I will be their God, and they will be my people. No longer will they teach their neighbor, or say to one another, ‘Know the LORD,’ because they will all know me, from the least of them to the greatest,” declares the LORD. “For I will forgive their wickedness and will remember their sins no more.””

God knew if He could get to our hearts, to the very core of who we are, then we could enjoy Him like we did back in the beginning of time. 

Enter Jesus. Fully God, Fully Human… God knew that the only way to execute His plan was to execute Himself for all of mankind:

John 14:6 – ““I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.”


John 12:32 – “And I, when I am lifted up from the earth, will draw all people to myself.””

To those who are seeking God need only to come to Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who died for our sins so we can experience the real and living God in this world. 

Jesus cares about people in the midst of darkness…

Matthew 23:37 – ““Jerusalem, Jerusalem, you who kill the prophets and stone those sent to you, how often I have longed to gather your children together, as a hen gathers her chicks under her wings, and you were not willing.”

This could very easily be said of today. Jesus sees the grip of evil in this world and wants so desperately for it to be eradicated, but that won’t happen until all people come to Him to be washed of their sins:

2 Corinthians 5:17–19 – “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here! All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation: that God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ, not counting people’s sins against them.”

But once it is eradicated, once all evil is purged from this world. Those who have been cleansed in this world, will be with God forever, in the same way we were at the beginning of time: 

Revelation 21:1–7 – “Then I saw “a new heaven and a new earth,” for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away, and there was no longer any sea. I saw the Holy City, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride beautifully dressed for her husband. And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Look! God’s dwelling place is now among the people, and he will dwell with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God. ‘He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death’ or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.”

He who was seated on the throne said, “I am making everything new!” Then he said, “Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true.”

He said to me: “It is done. I am the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End. To the thirsty I will give water without cost from the spring of the water of life. Those who are victorious will inherit all this, and I will be their God and they will be my children.”

No more tears. No more pain. No more evil. Just God and His people. 

That does my heart good. 

That’s not until later…how does this speak to the question of where God is? 


God has been trying to show Himself since the beginning of time. He’s always wanted us to be with Him, but because of the evil that exists within all of us, He became distant. He had to.

Yet, ever since that day God has been trying to get us to realize that He still wants to be with us. He sent Himself, in the form of a human, to die for us so that we could see Him in the midst of this world. 

And now, anyone who accepts God will become one with God and will experience Him, in this world, everyday of our lives. 

Even in the midst of intense tragedy.

Romans 8:38–39 – “For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

To those who have experienced loss in this past week, my heart goes out to. I pray that during this difficult time, you aren’t asking, “Where is God?”

Instead, I pray that you’ll be thanking Him for being there. 


Peace, Love, and Soul.

I Loves Me Some Humus…


No I’m not talking about the delicious spread you put on crackers….

“Humus” is the latin word for “Humility” or “Humble” (I can tell you’re really interested in knowing that, right?). When we think of Humility we think of someone who is confident yet meek, a person who is quiet yet strong…a person we could all look up to because of his/her “inner strength”.

What if I were to tell you that is not an accurate definition of the word “humility”?

Humus does not mean those things…not even close. Humus is the latin word for…wait for it…DIRT. Yep, that’s right, humility means to be dirt. Or as I put it, humility is allowing yourself to be treated like dirt (and that is where I will get the arguments)…

Let me explain…even though the definition says it good enough….if you want to be humble you have to okay with people treating you like dirt. That means you are okay with people walking over you (as dirt is accustomed to), or people dumping their trash on you (again, a major job of dirt). As a person who strives for humility, you must be okay when people treat you as less than human…because that is what being dirt is all about.

That’s how Jesus demonstrated Humility.

Think about it. When Jesus was on trial and He was being accused of blasphemy, what did He do? He allowed it…

When Jesus was beaten, spat upon, whipped within an inch of his life, and nailed to a piece of wood, what did He do…He didn’t defend Himself, He prayed for the Father to forgive them.

Jesus was God and He allowed Himself to be treated like dirt.

It’s just like Paul said in Philippians 2:5-8, “Have this attitude in yourselves which was also in Christ Jesus, who, although He existed in the form of God, did not regard equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied Himself, taking the form of a bond-servant, and being made in the likeness of men. Being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross.”

You see…Jesus emptied Himself…I mean it’s bad enough that Jesus had to become like us, but to be treated as lower than human is far worse. Yet that is how Jesus wanted it and that is how we should want it as well.

Look, I’m just now realizing this stuff myself and I am still up in the air about how this should be done in my life and in the life of the church, but it doesn’t mean I’m not going to try. I wonder how Christianity would look if we stopped defending ourselves and started being the dirt that God has asked us to be.

By the Way, Dirt isn’t just for walking or dumping trash on, it’s also the main source for beautiful life. I have to believe that if I humble myself the way that God is asking me to then beautiful things will definitely spring up in my life.

It’s time to get dirty.

Peace, Love, and Soul